CONFIDENCE

Confidence is one of those things that looks good on everyone.

Just try to:

…power pose

…wear heels 

…speak up 

& tell me you don’t feel like a bad*ss? 

BUT the difference is one comes from within -INTERNAL POWER 

& the other comes from:

EXTERNAL VALIDATION 

the one that comes from others will only be as good as the people or places you can attract 

& only for a time

I used to think I would feel MORE attractive if people validated that 

Or that I would become MORE exceptional if someone affirmed it 

But all these things are at best social proofs

Chad Eastman said: “ God created your worth, a man cannot created it, he can only affirm it.

And I would add that anyone will affirm what you already believe about yourself to be true!

your confidence can manifest so when you know you were created with intricately with unlimited potential

you can repeat the mantra honestly

“I don’t chase, I attract.”

Listen,

You don’t need to shrug your shoulders if you’re not wearing makeup 

& you don’t need to wait for someone to call on you to speak your truth 

& I wish someone told me sooner that I don’t even have try to even the scale in giving attention you wish to receive 

No,

Know yourself.

& be aggressively yourself, be good, get good, be transparent & no one will relate to you but they will be impacted by you 

& when someone else is also as comfortable with their individuality they will see you eye level

Don’t seek to impress 

Or even cover your insecurity 

Just be confident about all your strengths & weaknesses then you will never need to wear a mask or become anyone’s energy 

Being desperate 

Being elite 

It’s all wrong 

Be yourself - know what your care about & this compassion will become your greatest ignition